Under-13 Gmail accounts in Google Family Groups block IMAP protocol, preventing the use of macOS Mail

I created a Family Group in Google and a new Gmail account for my child, who is currently under 13 years old. Unfortunately, I learned that this has unanticipated consequences with macOS Mail.

When I added the Google account to the new Mac, Mail showed this triangle icon next to the account in the sidebar.

Warning alert icon next to Gmail account.

Clicking on the triangle would display the error, “Online Status” with two buttons, “Cancel” and “Try Again.” Clicking the latter button did nothing. Deleting and re-adding the Google account resulted in the same warning icon and error.

This is not a very descriptive alert.

IMAP Restricted

It turns out that child accounts under the age of 13 in a Google Family Group restricts the ability to access email via the IMAP protocol. I verified this by going to Gmail settings for the account. There’s no Forwarding and POP/IMAP tab like there is in a regular Gmail account.

No tab for Forwarding and POP/IMAP in this Gmail account.

Occasionally, Mail would provide a more descriptive error message than simply saying, “Online Status” when clicking on the triangle icon. I only saw this message once, which I was fortunate to capture in the screenshot below. This should be the default prompt, because it explains the problem precisely. It would have saved me time looking through various Google support, Apple discussion, and Reddit threads.

A much more descriptive error message.

Workarounds

If you want to be able to access this account in macOS Mail, you’ll have to change the child’s age in Google to be 13 or over. If you don’t want to do that, you’ll have to either:

  1. Use Gmail in a web browser.
  2. Create an app based on a website using Safari.
  3. Find an alternative macOS client for Gmail that can access email for children under 13 in a Family Group.

For now, I’ll choose between option 1 or 2. As for macOS Mail, my kid will still be able to use it for checking iCloud email. When my child turns 13, I’ll reconfigure macOS Mail so the account can finally be accessed.

I hope this article helps parents who are wondering why they cannot set up Gmail for their under-13 children’s accounts within a Family Group.

5 responses to “Under-13 Gmail accounts in Google Family Groups block IMAP protocol, preventing the use of macOS Mail”

  1. Louis Avatar
    Louis

    I just can’t believe this site still going! Bravo mon frere!

    1. Adam Tow Avatar

      Definitely still going. Glad to see you. Hope all is well! It’s been over 20 years hasn’t it?

  2. Louis Avatar
    Louis

    oui oui… time flies!!

  3. Vern Avatar
    Vern

    Glad to find this post describing the same symtpons we’re experincing.

    I have the same symptoms, using MacOS and child Gmail account, which is linked to Google family. However, my kid is over 13 now and the issue persists. I’ve tried to remove and re-add to MacOS without success. Have no issue connecting to the account with same child’s iPhone and iPad.

    1. Adam Tow Avatar

      I still have some time before the kid turns 13. If you find a way to resolve your problem, let us know! I will update the post when I have to do this too.

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